"There is nothing more satisfying for readers than having an
author take them to a place they think they know, and then showing them how very little
they actually do."
-The Hartford Courant
"Phan's strong, eloquent tales finally give voice to the children, and the people
around them, who are forced to live with the consequences of loss-loss of family, country,
culture, and hope."
-Seattle Weekly
"Luminously written....For many thousands, the war endures in lasting ways that
have been long overlooked, and it is these Phan's book illuminates."
-The Oregonian
"[Phan's] point is powerfully made and brings light to a controversial time in our
history....Not only does Phan present the material in an intriguing, unexpected manner,
she also takes advantage of the outright drama of the subject matter, but without diving
deep into tepid melodrama."
-New City
"Graceful, spare....Phan unswervingly captures the cruelty of children who have
themselves been cruelly treated and the grief, denial and alienation created by loss....A
wrenching, poignant collection laced with pity and terror."
-Publishers Weekly
"The linked stories that make up this dynamic debut are spare in their approach
but profoundly observant....[An] unassuming but hard-edged travelogue which memorably
shows the ways humans bob and weave against ever-present alienation."
-Booklist
"Stylistically, WE SHOULD NEVER MEET is a marvel....While these eight stories are
connected, the links are subtle and at times ambiguous. The dexterity with which the
author handles the interconnectedness of her characters' lives is matched by her skill at
writing unfettered by sequence. Each of these stories moves freely back and forth between
past and present, and the order in which the stories are presented is somewhat
chronological, but not entirely. Yet never, not once, does the clarity of the narrative
suffer."
-The Asian Reporter
"Extraordinary....Creates with eloquent dignity an intricate bridge of human
stories connecting America and Vietnam."